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noworries
08-06-2011, 12:46 AM
You ever have one of those days where you just want to say screw you to certain people?
To tell them to kiss your ass and even when you know your right about something someone will come along and just piss you off to no end.:mad:
I have always been the doormat but not anymore I am so livid right now I would love to go off on this certain person!!!!!
So advice do you let the person hurt you or do you fight for what you know is right and in the end losing it all over anger?

lacarnut
08-06-2011, 01:35 AM
We have all had those shitty days. I look at life like this. Some days are diamonds, some days are stone. Just so long that there are more good days than the other, I am happy, happy and can look forward to tommorrow.

I have never been a doormat. So, that is foreign to me. I retired from the state of LA and worked around mostly women. Several of my good friends would not take up for themselves. It used to really tick me off. Several times I intervened on their behalf which did not endear me to the top brass. But hey, that is just the way I roll. If someone does not like it, that is called tough shit.

SaintLouieWoman
08-06-2011, 12:18 PM
You ever have one of those days where you just want to say screw you to certain people?
To tell them to kiss your ass and even when you know your right about something someone will come along and just piss you off to no end.:mad:
I have always been the doormat but not anymore I am so livid right now I would love to go off on this certain person!!!!!
So advice do you let the person hurt you or do you fight for what you know is right and in the end losing it all over anger?

Don't go off on them in anger. Try as hard as you can to kill them with kindness. Smile and very politely tell them precisely how you think. I was a doormat for a long time and one particular person was despicable to me. After stuffing it in for so many years, I finally told her precisely what I thought and that I would no longer put up with that treatment.

Of course, she's no longer speaking to me, but my health is better. Some folks are just toxic and not worth wasting your energy. Life is too short to put up with nonsense forever.

noworries
08-06-2011, 02:19 PM
We have all had those shitty days. I look at life like this. Some days are diamonds, some days are stone. Just so long that there are more good days than the other, I am happy, happy and can look forward to tommorrow.

I have never been a doormat. So, that is foreign to me. I retired from the state of LA and worked around mostly women. Several of my good friends would not take up for themselves. It used to really tick me off. Several times I intervened on their behalf which did not endear me to the top brass. But hey, that is just the way I roll. If someone does not like it, that is called tough shit.

Well you are a good person for sticking up for those women

noworries
08-06-2011, 02:20 PM
Don't go off on them in anger. Try as hard as you can to kill them with kindness. Smile and very politely tell them precisely how you think. I was a doormat for a long time and one particular person was despicable to me. After stuffing it in for so many years, I finally told her precisely what I thought and that I would no longer put up with that treatment.

Of course, she's no longer speaking to me, but my health is better. Some folks are just toxic and not worth wasting your energy. Life is too short to put up with nonsense forever.

I was not going to go after the person in anger there is no point but boy I am going to get a few things off my chest because it is really bothering me.