View Full Version : Boy wanting to join Girl Scouts told 'no'

10-27-2011, 06:00 PM
DENVER - Everyone has their favorite toys, no matter what age they are. For 7-year-old Bobby Montoya, it's Brats, Barbies and Strawberry Shortcake.

"I like girl stuff," Bobby said.

Bobby is a 7-year-old boy. His mother refers to him as a "he," but Bobby dresses and behaves like a girl.

"Bobby identifies as a girl, and he's a boy," Felisha Archuleta, Bobby's mom, said. "He's been doing this since he was about 2 years old. He's loved girl stuff, so we just let him dress how he wants, as long as he's happy."

Bobby is happy most of the time. But he says, sometimes in school, being a boy and dressing like a girl occasionally is tough. He's been bullied.

"It's hurting my heart," Bobby said. "It hurts me and my mom both."

Recently, Archuleta wanted to sign Bobby up for Girl Scouts. His older sister did it, and Bobby really wanted to join. Archuleta told 9NEWS when she brought Bobby to register, a troop leader told her Bobby couldn't join.

"I said, 'Well, what's the big deal?' She said 'It doesn't matter how he looks, he has boy parts, he can't be in Girl Scouts. Girl Scouts don't allow that [and] I don't want to be in trouble by parents or my supervisor,'" Archuleta told 9NEWS.

"It was like somebody told me I can't like girl stuff, and I have to change my name to something else," Bobby said.

Girl Scouts of Colorado released this statement to 9NEWS:

"Girl Scouts is an inclusive organization and we accept all girls in Kindergarten through 12th grade as members. If a child identifies as a girl and the child's family presents her as a girl, Girl Scouts of Colorado welcomes her as a Girl Scout. Our requests for support of transgender kids have grown, and Girl Scouts of Colorado is working to best support these children, their families and the volunteers who serve them. In this case, an associate delivering our program was not aware of our approach. She contacted her supervisor, who immediately began working with the family to get the child involved and supported in Girl Scouts. We are accelerating our support systems and training so that we're better able to serve all girls, families and volunteers."

Corey Barrett with the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender Community Center of Colorado says the Center is seeing young people exploring their gender identity at an earlier age.

"There has definitely been this increase of questioning at an early age," Barrett said, "I think it's all about providing a healthy environment for them for that to happen. Everyone needs to be prepared or at least have an idea from a policy and procedure stand point how they're going to address that. And make sure that the public is aware of that."

Dr. Shawn Worthy is a professor and clinical psychologist with Metropolitan State College of Denver, who specializes in family systems and mental health within family frameworks.

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I would beat him like a red headed step child!:rolleyes:

10-27-2011, 06:07 PM
I've always hated how the Girl Scouts operate. They are NOT family oriented at all, don't do things that encourage the girls in that direction. Boy Scouts are family first, girls can join, though not as a regular Cub/Boy Scout, but as an Adventure. Every time my sister and mom did stuff with the Girl Scouts that would have been family oriented if it was Boy Scouts, I wasn't allowed to go.

They aren't about anything more than pushing their agenda in sex anymore. I wont let my girls become Girl Scouts

10-27-2011, 08:04 PM
I would beat him like a red headed step child!:rolleyes:


10-27-2011, 08:25 PM
And look....no mention of the father in the article at all. No wonder this kid has his wiring scrambled.

10-27-2011, 08:29 PM
And look....no mention of the father in the article at all. No wonder this kid has his wiring scrambled.

Don't you like how a 7 year old tells his mother how he will dress and she listens.
Funny how he happens to have girls clothes that fit him.:confused: