I don't know anyone whose died in either conflict, yet. I hope it remains that way.
I did learn about a casualty from Canada last night. Seems a friend of mine had a college room mate killed in Afghanistan a couple of years ago. He was apart of a convoy heading through a town at pretty high speeds. A local vehichle cut infront of their truck and got t-boned and he ended up caving his head in on the truck dash.
I hope that when we're all remembering the sacrifices and losses we've had, that we're remembering those of our allies as well.