She Could Convince them that Martyrdom was the only Way to Escape the Shame.

[Odysseus]

oh and we do have that going for us! :D But what is even better is knowing some tricks out of the kama sutra and having a wife who is the woman of your dreams. I married above myself and I'm not afraid to admit it!!

I understand completely. My wife reminds me that I married above myself regularly. :D