For me, there's the big things like family, friends, that sort of love. I believe what's best in life is giving it up for something greater. This means not living for yourself, but living for other people, living for good causes, and living for God. I think the best thing a person can do is give themselves up to God and become a vessel for His divine will, which benefits the people and world around you. I want to leave the world a better place than when I entered it, or If that's not possible, to at least change it for the better, and I know that I cannot do that myself. I think the only way people can really love others, love the world, or the love God is to engage in continuous struggle with oneself.
As you can probably see, this reflects my spiritual beliefs so of course I cannot expect everyone else to agree with me.
I don't always live up to this ideal, in fact I very rarely do. Most times I can be selfish or stupid or ego-centric or do things that are inconsiderate or hurt other people, and I feel guilty for it. Like everyone else I'm filled with sin and faults, but this is what I consider the ideal what I hope to live up to. This is one of my values that I fall short on, but try to aim for.
I hope this answers your question