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    Quote Originally Posted by Odysseus View Post
    The riding crop is always a dead giveaway. :D
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zafod View Post
    but they let you take control right. Maybe you dominate and you dont know it?
    lf you could call it that... but a couple of partners (my ex is definately one) was the more aggressive partner. He would veto sex if he didn't want. But usually I got to decide if we were going out that night.

    And sometimes, I could cajole sex or favors out of it...I have a corset called the, "I-want-shit" corset. :D

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    "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is hard business. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." Rudyard Kipling - (1865-1936)

    Context doesn't matter to this liberal it seems/ as long as it satisfies his godless dreams/ like monkeys throwing sh!t as castles in air/ as long as he throws/that is the extent of his care.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CueSi View Post
    No.



    No.

    Not all straight guys are alike. Some guys are going to be traditional. Some aren't. I've been all over the map as to the type of partner I turn out to be: I've been the June Cleaver, and I've been the tomboy and everywhere in between. I don't dominate.

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    I still have not been able to decide the nature versus nurture in my mind.
    The one thing that always seems to always swing it somewhat to the nature side for me is why anyone would willingly put up with all the hassle if there was not a strong driving force.

    Think about all the negatives said about homosexuals on this board in just the last week and could you imagine choosing to put up with that on an almost daily basis for years just to have sex with someone of the same gender as you are? Does not make a lot of sense to me.

    On the other hand, nature would not explain bi-sexuality which seems to be a "any port in the storm" position driven by more by narcissism and availability than by genetics.

    But I am not turned on by girl on girl porn as some of the more vocally macho hear appear to claim to be so who really knows?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Madisonian View Post
    I still have not been able to decide the nature versus nurture in my mind.
    The one thing that always seems to always swing it somewhat to the nature side for me is why anyone would willingly put up with all the hassle if there was not a strong driving force.

    Think about all the negatives said about homosexuals on this board in just the last week and could you imagine choosing to put up with that on an almost daily basis for years just to have sex with someone of the same gender as you are? Does not make a lot of sense to me.

    On the other hand, nature would not explain bi-sexuality which seems to be a "any port in the storm" position driven by more by narcissism and availability than by genetics.

    But I am not turned on by girl on girl porn as some of the more vocally macho hear appear to claim to be so who really knows?
    Some bisexuals ARE any port in a storm types...I know plenty people that are like that. Me, I simply take male/female out of my consideration of sexual partners. If someones character, personality and general style appeal to me, I will be interested. Sometimes I'll find more interesting partners among women, sometimes among men.

    Narcissist? Nah. Avaliability... I'll admit sometimes that figures into it, but most times, I'd rather go without than settle..which is what I'm doing now.

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    Context doesn't matter to this liberal it seems/ as long as it satisfies his godless dreams/ like monkeys throwing sh!t as castles in air/ as long as he throws/that is the extent of his care.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CueSi View Post

    But I act the same way when I date men too...some men are less aggressive and will leave me to my fantasy football, war movies, and gadgets. . .would you call THEM feminine?

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    I'd say you are dating the wrong men.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Madisonian View Post
    Think about all the negatives said about homosexuals on this board in just the last week and could you imagine choosing to put up with that on an almost daily basis for years just to have sex with someone of the same gender as you are? Does not make a lot of sense to me.
    Not saying it's nature or nurture, but lots of people make choices which don't make sense to me. Why would someone get 20 piercings in their face and then complain they can't get a job?
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    Quote Originally Posted by CueSi View Post
    No.



    No.

    Not all straight guys are alike. Some guys are going to be traditional. Some aren't. I've been all over the map as to the type of partner I turn out to be: I've been the June Cleaver, and I've been the tomboy and everywhere in between. I don't dominate.

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    I kinda figured you'd contrast June Cleaver with Beaver Cleaver......:D
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    I think this thread really hilights the fact that gender is far more than your biological toolbox.

    It seems Zafod is asserting that dominance is a male trait, a basic perception in a patriarchal society.

    Although sexuality is extremely fluid, gender is a more fundamental concept, and thus responsible for more structuring of your experience of reality. Hell there are systems of thought that attribute a Male and Female role to the entire universe (Yin and Yang as the constituents of the flow of reality)
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    It is not very unreasonable that the rich should contribute to the public expense, not only in proportion to their revenue, but something more than in that proportion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by m00 View Post
    I'd say you are dating the wrong men.
    There is an argument made for that. South Florida has a poor male-to-female ratio. Throw in that the numbers ARE against black women, period. Plus with my social and work history (ex-exotic dancer, unfinished college education, etc.), my choices will be limited. But I make do with what I have and try to make my stock into... as close to blue-chip as possible.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bubba Dawg View Post
    I kinda figured you'd contrast June Cleaver with Beaver Cleaver......:D
    Naw, too easy. Even drunk posting it's too easy. :D

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    Context doesn't matter to this liberal it seems/ as long as it satisfies his godless dreams/ like monkeys throwing sh!t as castles in air/ as long as he throws/that is the extent of his care.
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