Sheesh, is everything about sex with you? How did you miss (as I did for the last 32 years) the line about the date with Paul Williams (ewwww).
I just thought that was Nova being Nova. :p
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is hard business. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." Rudyard Kipling - (1865-1936)