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  1. #1 The American Dream: "It is a lie, and it is a multi billion dollar lie." 
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    As usual, if there's a FAIL story in America...you'll find in on DU.


    kpete (1000+ posts) Sat Jan-01-11 11:50 AM
    Original message The American Dream: "It is a lie, and it is a multi billion dollar lie."


    Featherbed of Lies Take 6 Death of a Dream
    by Im a frayed knot
    Sat Jan 01, 2011 at 08:33:22 AM PST

    Today I pull a bunch of feathers out of the featherbed as I look at what what is commonly known as "The American Dream."

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    We raise our children believing it. We see it on TV. It is a favorite topic among motivational speakers. If you have the belief and the discipline, you can get rich by owning your own business. Only in the US, they proclaim, can any child who puts his or her mind to it open their own storefront and become a millionaire. It is a lie, and it is a multi billion dollar lie.


    This is a personal story. It is hard to tell. It hurts.

    Five years ago last month, my son and partners negotiated a lease on a store front in a strip mall. To ensure their acceptance on the lease, I cosigned. They were sure I would never have to pay in any money, they were going to be able to pay it easily from the profits they would make. My son and his partners were about to realize their dream, the American Dream. They were going to own their own gym. They bought a franchise and began the build out. It would be spectacular. They were talking about the lavish lifestyles they would have when the profits came rolling in.

    The profits weren't there immediately. That was ok, because I told them it would take three to five years before any new business that required capital would show a profit. So they worked. And worked. After a few months one partner left, then before they had been open a year the other partner walked out. Now it was just my son - and me. He did the work, I infused the cash (well, my husband and I did, month after month, exhausting our savings and the equity in our home). My other son worked too, to help out. Those profits weren't coming in.

    Over the years, 9 other gyms went under and we got many of their members. We expanded to include day care and a classroom to retain them. We were always within a hair's breath of making a profit but each time we were there something would happen - a furnace would blow out and need to be repaired. A bad snowstorm. A trainer would leave and take his clients. The horrible economy cost several members their jobs and forced them to quit. A multinational company came in right up the street. We weathered that too. Over the summer, our franchise agreement came to term and the franchise wanted us to spend thousands of dollars to remodel in their new image as well as wanting to change our pricing structure, so we left them to another local franchise. As a result, we had to hire several new employees. After many snafus and much expense in making the change, we were beginning to click. It looked like we would finally be profitable. My son took great pride in the fact that even in this economy he was providing employment to some 30 employees and another 25 independent contractors. The employees were not full time, but it was work they would not have otherwise had. One time he posted a help wanted ad on Craig's list and within half a day he had over 200 applications. Times here were tough.

    Then another multinational moved in. they began charging new members so little we could not process the paperwork for the price they were charging. And they were much bigger, with many more amenities. They were funding their initial pricing with profits from other locations. Yes, it was predatory pricing as described in the Sherman Antitrust Act and the Clayton Act. But those laws have either been gutted by corporate owned courts or are no longer enforced. In three weeks, we lost 40% of our members. It wasn't just us. Even established, very profitable gyms suffered similar losses. We could not survive. When we first decided that we had to shut down, it was like being punched in the gut. I found myself recalling the words from the Stones' Angie, "they can't say we never tried." "All the dreams we held so close seemed to all go up in smoke."

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    DUmmies, no one has a problem with hearing stories like this, it's just the normal ebb and flow of bidness. Some make it, some don't.

    But you shitheads take a story like this and make it sound like anyone thinking of starting a small bidness is dooooomed. "You people" disgust me. Did you assholes catch that...You People. I know that pisses you Libtards off. :D

    This country was made great by risk takers, not whiny fucks like yourselves.

    Go watch a Mikey Moore movie while my wife and I dine on Filet Mignon. Assholes.
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    May the FORCE be with you!
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarasotaRepub View Post
    As usual, if there's a FAIL story in America...you'll find in on DU.




    DUmmies, no one has a problem with hearing stories like this, it's just the normal ebb and flow of bidness. Some make it, some don't.

    But you shitheads take a story like this and make it sound like anyone thinking of starting a small bidness is dooooomed. "You people" disgust me. Did you assholes catch that...You People. I know that pisses you Libtards off. :D

    This country was made great by risk takers, not whiny fucks like yourselves.

    Go watch a Mikey Moore movie while my wife and I dine on Filet Mignon. Assholes.
    :)

    But but but I thought that business owners were all rich evil people who deserve to have their taxes raised and NEED to have excessive regulations to keep them from making too much of a profit!!!


    You THINK these idiots would realize that this is what small business people do EVERY DAY, and that is WHY they deserve to be rich when they finally do make it.

    I failed in two businesses before I made my third one pay off. I sacrificed my home for my second one and lived in my car for a short time until my parents took me back in. I then got may graduate degree and then my PhD., worked my ass off in a job that I hated - all the while living in a shithole so that I could save up enough to give it another go. I started my 3rd business,& finally made a very good living.

    These little pissants think that having your own business is a free ticket. It is not free at all. It is VERY expensive. So expensive that few of them are willing to sacrifice enough to make it work - yet they begrudge those of us who did risk everything and who DID put in the 75-85 hour weeks while eating ramen noodles, and seeing our employees make 10 times as much money as we did - while they worked half of the hours and had NONE of the heartburn trying to make payroll and keep the business alive.

    I think I DESERVE the lifestyle I now have - and you lazy pieces of shit who are not willing to put your neck on the line don't have ANY claim to the results of my efforts.
    I long for the days when our President actually liked our country.
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    Did that sound bitter???
    I long for the days when our President actually liked our country.
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    Clearly, the problem is the business owner wasn't taxed enough.
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    Quote Originally Posted by m00 View Post
    Clearly, the problem is the business owner wasn't taxed enough.
    ... or regulated enough.

    Small business is risky. Many fail. So WTF does your son's one failure have to say about The American Dream? N-O-T-H-I-N-G.

    You, DUmmie, are the liar - which of course is why your'e at whining the DUmp.
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