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  1. #1 Why roughhousing is good for kids—and their parents 
    Why roughhousing is good for kids—and their parents

    by Lylah M. Alphonse, Senior Editor, Manage Your Life, on Wed Jun 1, 2011 1:56pm PDT

    Forget about letting the kids run around unsupervised; we don't even let them jump on the beds anymore. Between helicopter parents who hover, Tiger Moms who are obsessed with academic success, and curling parents who sweep a perfectly clear path for their kids to follow, we're so worried about keeping our kids safe that we end up limiting their activity levels along with their independence.

    But a little horsing around could do kids a world of good, two experts suggest—and they encourage parents to roughhouse right along with their children.

    "Play looks a lot different than it did 30 years ago," says Dr. Anthony DeBenedet, who co-wrote "The Art of Roughhousing: Good, Old-Fashioned Horseplay and Why Every Kid Needs It" with Lawrence J. Cohen, PhD. "I think it's time for us to kind of cut the strings a little bit. Let kids go—and play with them."

    "We want to get a throwback to the good stuff," he adds. "The good stuff is play. And the holy grail is roughhousing."

    Roughhousing does more than keep kids physically active. "There are clear signs showing that it helps kids' academic success, it's associated with being more flexible behaviorally, being better able to deal with unpredictability," DeBenedet says. "Play—especially active physical play, like roughhousing—makes kids smart, emotionally intelligent, lovable and likable, ethical, physically fit, and joyful," they write in their book.

    So what is roughhousing, exactly? "You kind of know it when you see it," explains DeBenedet, the father of 5, 2, and 6-month-old girls. (Yes, girls can roughhouse, too.) There are two main types, he says: Improvisational free-form roughhousing, which can include everything from wrestling to jumping on the couch to pillow fights, and set moves that are "almost like physical challenges with your kid."

    At a recent roughhousing workshop
    in New York, parents rolled around on mats with their children, hoisted them in the air, and took part in an energetic pillow fight.
    Dear Lord! Is it so bad now that parents have to be taught how play? :eek:

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    My kids beat the hell out of me every night. Then they beat on each other. Then the beat me more. We love it. :D
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    "Roughhousing", now there's a word you don't hear much anymore.
    "The efforts of the government alone will never be enough. In the end the people must choose and the people must help themselves" ~ JFK; from his famous inauguration speech (What Democrats sounded like before today's neo-Liberals hijacked that party)
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