Next time you're laying in bed with, not getting any, tell her to suck your balls. Don't ask, tell her.
If she doesn't do it, kick her to the curb and never see her again. If she does it, then you've got a foot in the door. And non-dry balls.
If she sees your love as purely platonic then it's not going to do any good for you or for her to have you following her around wanting more and not getting any.
If you are able to accept her purely platonic love, that means actually accept it without wishing or wanting for more, then great job. This means you are growing and developing. Whatever it is you believed she had that you needed, you have somehow found that you don't need to get that from her.
Often times these things work in ways you don't expect, I'm sure you have noticed that girls will flirt with guys more when the guys are not trying too hard (like if they are in relationships, or if they are just not interested). There is a slim chance that by you not wanting her romantically, that she will be able to see you in a romantic way, of course this can only happen as a by-product if you not seeing her romantically, you can't do this on purpose so don't try.
Basically what I'm saying is that if you are able to accept her platonic love, then you both win. If there is one-sided romantic love, then you will probably both lose (or at least, you certaintly will).
It's perfectly okay to have a close, loving, platonic relationship with a woman, even if you started out being interested in her romantically. A lot of insecure men believe that you must be "Mr. Big Dick Johnson who always fucks every woman he talks to because why else would you talk to them?!", but that isn't necessary.
You don't need approval from any of them, nor do you need it from any woman.
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