#1 For my 6000th post, Please allow me to say that job hunting and unemployment...04-04-2012, 08:42 AM
Ahhhh...another classic DUmmie post about the job market.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 11:04 PM
For my 6000th post, Please allow me to say that job hunting and unemployment really SUCK!
As many of you know, I, as well as many others here, have been unemployed for 10 months. Many of you were VERY supportive in early February when I posted a thread about a son of a bitch bastard quack "doctor" who screwed me out of a job with his assertion that my back would make it impossible fo me to fulfill my duties in a position where I would have to TALK to people.
In January, I was called back for a 4th interview for what I thought would be a really good job. My wife and I thought that for a 4th interview (that I was told in advance would be a brief 30 to 40 minute chat) they were looking to firm up an offer and a starting date. I was shocked when I saw that the "interview" was clearly an exercise in trying to find excuses to NOT hire me.
I know, by the way, that I am a strong interviewer. My references are all close personal friends that were all supervisors or co-workers at one time or another.
Since early March of this year, I have had 10 interviews for state jobs. I have received the "blow off" letters for 7 of them so far. My scores for state positions is always in the high 90s if not 100+.
I interviewed for a position Friday 3/16. The job description may as well have simply said "JACK". The 3 individuals stated at the end of the interview that they looked forward to bringing me aboard and working with me. On Wednesday 3/21 I received a phone call from the director stating that she had "good news and bad news". Obviously the bad news was that I didn't get the job. The "good" news was that she "invited and encouraged" me to apply for the exact same position at an office that was about another 10-12 miles further away from my home. I applied immediately via e-mail. I called her on 3/29 to see when I may schedule an interview and was denied by the same woman who solicited my application.
This was the most cynical thing I'd seen done in a job hunt since my first official part time job as a dish washer when I was 15 in 1970. I think that I called a bluff and that I was supposed to say that the second opportunity was too far away.
There have also been several other interviews that I thought were good possibilities. Each of them has fallen through
I have seen that there is considerable discrimination being practiced against the long term unemployed. I also believe that, even though I look much younger than I am, the biggest factor is that I'll be 57 in June.
This week I expect to be offered a position that will pay under $10 an hour. Even though I have a Masters Degree and almost 20 years experience in my field, I'll be happy to get it. The agency seems a good one and it certainly has opportunities for advancement.
If one of the higher paying jobs comes through I'll take it. If not, I'm keeping my ass where it lands. I am SO SICK of going on interviews that if I never do another one (after I get a job) it'll be too soon. I really have to fight my feelings of depression and despair. I have to keep trying because I have a family that, as many of you know from my other posts here, I love very much and to whom I am very devoted. For them, I have NO OTHER CHOICE than to keep positive and to never give up. Sooner or later SOMEBODY has to look past the gray hair.
If necessary, I'll be visiting hiring kiosks at Walmart (ugh!), K-Mart, Lowe's, etc,. If I have to, I'll be offering my services for rides, cooking, delivering messages, light hauling or cleaning. Maybe there's a market out there for a pudgy middle aged gray haired male stripper. The only question there is if the ladies would supply their own magnifying glasses to see my naughty bit or if I'd have to throw them in with my fee.
Still in all, I remain hopeful and optimistic. Things will get better sooner or later. On the whole, sooner would be better. I hope that I and all of the DUers out there find something damn soon. I hope that those of you who are working don't have to go through what we're going through now.
Thanks for reading and "listening"
The DUmmie seems to be having problems getting hired but all I read are excuses and then..."I really have to fight my feelings of depression and despair." Gotta have that in a post!!!
They are also always out to "get" him!
As with many DUmmie "Tales of Woe", I doubt we are getting the whole story, not sure why but this guy screams "troublemaker" to me and it wouldn't surprise me a bit if the hiring people are hiding from him.
Sorry bud, maybe you should send Nadin a PM, she is way more qualified than you in everything possible so maybe she can throw you a bone but I wouldn't hold my breath.May the FORCE be with you!
04-04-2012, 08:46 AM
Too bad DUmmy, were you an overweight, diabetic BLACK FEMALE, you'd have gotten those jobs.
rm -rf obama*
04-04-2012, 09:13 AM
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Sorry DUmmy, I don't buy it. Employers don't call you back for fourth interview to deny you a job.
04-04-2012, 09:19 AMMay the FORCE be with you!
04-04-2012, 10:11 AM
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04-04-2012, 10:13 AM
Masters degree w/-20 experience.
I'm tempted to call BS. Unless the guy came across as knowing-it-all or has some medical problems he'd damn near get any job on experience alone.The 21st century. The age of Smart phones and Stupid people.
It is said that branches draw their life from the vine. Each is separate yet all are one as they share one life giving stem . The Bible tells us we are called to a similar union in life, our lives with the life of God. We are incorporated into him; made sharers in his life. Apart from this union we can do nothing.
04-04-2012, 10:06 PM
Maybe you get four interviews if the job you are applying for is "guy that carries the nuclear football" but other than that, four interviews without an offer would give me pause as to what type of organization I was walking into.Be Not Afraid.
04-05-2012, 12:10 AM
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Remember the OP had a master's degree, 20 years of experience, and dealt with people in some kind of medical situation. That sounds like it could be counseling or some therapy-related activity, which might require more scrutiny by more people up the chain.
A friend of mine is a teacher at a state community college and she had a preliminary interview with the hiring committee, a group interview with potential fellow colleagues, a teaching demonstration observed by the hiring committee and the department chair, and an interview with the Dean.
Last edited by Elspeth; 04-05-2012 at 12:17 AM.
04-05-2012, 01:12 PM
I haven't had to interview for a job for a long time, but I've never had an interview process that involved more than two interviews, and those were situations where a regional boss or someone who was off the day of the first interview had to make a final hiring decision.
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