
Originally Posted by
noonwitch
Have you ever really studied the Bible? Not just read it, but studied it, maybe with the help of a study guide or a group? When you do that, you are able to put the words into context. Paul's letters were written, for example, to address issues that had come up in the congregations he was writing to. Plucking a verse out of that context is not an accurate presentation of the meaning of the words. It's sort of like when a video of someone's speech is spliced so that one comment appears offensive, but when put in the context of the overall speech, is not offensive at all.
You can find study groups that won't condemn you for being gay. The Quakers (Society of Friends) are who I would recommend seeking out for that type of study-not that they are the only gay friendly denomination, but the UCC/UMC/PBUSA don't always offer Bible Study, and those that do, usually offer it during the hours that most of us are working. Or, if you want to pick out a book to study on your own, N. T. Wright's series are good. I did the study of the Book of John a few months ago. He asks really good questions in each section, to answer at the end of each reading.