Take a day to yourself, handle your snakes and oil the door to your bunker, the pressure is getting to you.
You can't seem to handle a mild rebuke of back off and be civil and you won't be happy until you have made a production of this so take a couple days off on me.
It's not how old you are, it's how you got here. It's been a long road and not all of it was paved. Live every day as if it were your last, because one of these days, it will be.
It's MesS via DU, so it may be total conspiracy-theory-grade nonsense (i.e., if one is found to have been filed, the response will be that it was put there after O'Donnell reported its absence). But...